How To Suck A Big Dick

We have all been there, you unzip his pants and find a ginormous dick and you have absolutely no idea what to do with it and least of all how to suck it.

Having a big penis to play with can be great but it can also be a nightmare if you aren’t sure what to do and how to give it the best kind of pleasure.

You see, in my experience, I have found that sucking a small dick and sucking a big dick both have different techniques and both require different attention. You can read my advice on how to suck a small dick here.

I have had plenty of practice with different sized dicks and I found that big dicks are some of the hardest to master.

You’re in for a wild ride in this article but if you follow my in-depth tips you should be able to suck a big dick like a pro and have your man begging for your magic tongue.

The first thing I am going to do is let you in on one of my biggest and best-kept secrets. I used to have the WORST gag reflex, anything used to make me retch (even brushing my teeth) so you can imagine how hard it was for me to suck big dick without gagging.

However, I found a solution and if you’re anything like me or just don’t fancy your chances when it comes to sucking a big dick and potentially gagging, you need to try some of these big dick sucking techniques and tricks.

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bottle of deep throat spray

This is a miracle worker if you’re worried about gagging, all you need to do is spray a fair amount on to the back of your throat a few minutes before you begin the wonderful act of fellatio, wait and then go to town. The spray numbs your throat so it stops you from feeling anything and makes it so you don’t gag.

The mystical mint flavor isn’t always available as it’s the most popular so if it’s there and in stock and you like mint over cherry, just be aware it isn’t always available!

It’s perfect for those who want to try there hand at deep throating and perfect for those who do have a gag reflex and want to impress the dick they’re sucking.

I have found this spray lasts ages and it’s easy to pull out of your handbag or bedside drawer without arousing too much suspicion.

I used to gag from the simplest of things and when I started spraying these before giving oral sex it made me feel so much more confident and actually allowed me to try out all of the moves I wanted without worrying about gagging.

How To Suck His Cock Like No Other

Be confident, Be sexual, be provocative, be a master and if you can’t? Just fake it until you make it. I have learned over the years that the majority of men LOVE a woman (or man!) that’s confident in the sheets, even if you’re fake confident and actually have no idea what you’re doing but you look like you do, it’s a massive turn on.

When you have a big dick in front of you, take it with your hand, use some of this flavored lube and start by playing with the tip of the penis with your tongue. Take your tongue and let it linger around the tip, make swirling motions with your tongue and gently use your lips to take the head into your mouth.

When it comes to sucking any kind of dick, especially a big dick it’s important to tease. Teasing your partner is not just a turn on but it does things to your body that makes you inflamed with desire.

Gently take your tongue and run it along his shaft and make sure to miss the tip of his penis, it will drive him wild.

Even if you’re unsure, if he’s moaning, you’re doing it right. Just be confident, shut your eyes and imagine what would feel good.

Never Do This In A Blowjob:

  • Use your teeth
  • Kiss his pubes
  • Lick his butt without consent
  • Put your fingers in his butt without a subtle approval or nod
  • Never bite down
  • Swallow unless you really want too, it doesn’t make the blowjob any better and it’s really not necessary.

Big dick can be a little intimidating especially for people like me who have a  bad gag reflex as I mentioned before, but there are things you can do and they even make sex essentials for guys or gals like us.

box of oral numbing mints

Aside from the spray, I like to .
Pop two in your mouth before you suck dick and it makes your tongue and throat go numb, the effects don’t last for too long but enough to allow you to really get in there and perform oral sex to your heart’s content without worrying about gagging. I use these mints and the spray combined most of the time and they really do help me to feel more confident about my abilities and allow me to really give the best pleasure I can to my boyfriend.

These mints do take a while to dissolve so you can either chew it and get it to numb your mouth and throat quicker OR pop it in during foreplay, which is what I do. Nobody is going to be complaining if you’re sucking on a mint and it’ll make your breath smell great.

They are also really discreet to be kept inside your handbag or bedside cabinet and you do get lots inside one tin.

Suck Him Like You Own Him

Enthusiasm is key. Mixing enthusiasm with ‘fake’ confidence and you have yourself the perfect mix. It’s enough to drive anyone wild and if you’re actively up for sucking his dick and showing how much you enjoy it, you will be driving him wild just talking about it, trust me.

Something I used to do to make myself more confident is turn off all of the lights and have my partners wear a blindfold and that allowed me to just let go of any confidence issues. Now I have a long-term boyfriend we don’t always turn the lights off but if we are trying something new or I really want to let loose I do turn the lights off and maybe light a candle as it allows me to really let go and give it my all.

It’s A Challenge To Deep Throat A Big Penis

OK if you’re confident enough and are up for the challenge try your hand at deep throating, talk to your partner and see how far you can go (make sure to use the spray and mints combined, it’s an absolute lifesaver).

However, deep throating can be a daunting task when someone has a big dick. Speak to your partner beforehand and ask them not to push your head when you’re down there, it can make you instantly gag, especially if you have a sensitive gag reflex and also unless you know it’s coming, it’s not a nice sensation when the guy has a big penis.

You can also make sure you have lots of saliva on his penis to mimic the sensations of a pussy, pair this with some and it will feel amazing for him and taste amazing for you. Go down on him, get to the point you feel comfortable with and allow saliva to awash his penis, trust me on this one.

Deep-throating isn’t the endgame, going as deep as you can does not mean the best and greatest blowjob and you and your partner should both be aware of that. If you don’t enjoy it, let your partner know and ask him what else feels good and focus on that.

Deep-throating feels good to start and end with, don’t just focus on taking it as deep as you can, focus on the tip, the shaft and the balls too.

Suck The Tip Of His Penis (Real Talk)

cartoon of penis

Porn would LOVE you to believe that deep-throating is the way to a man’s heart but its nowhere near as stimulating as giving good head. Literally.

Stimulating the tip of his penis is like sucking on your clitoris. If you can perfect this technique then you can become a professional in your own right at sucking dick.

Stimulate his penis with your tongue, plenty of salivae and even some flavored lube if you have it to hand. Watch his face and see what he responds best too and even ask him what would feel good, each man is different (just like women and their clits!) but there are simple rules you can follow to give him the best blowjob of his life despite the size of his penis.

  • Swirl your tongue in circular motions around the head of his penis
  • Lick up and down his shaft focusing on gently pressing the head with your tongue
  • Let the head of his penis ‘pop’ in and out of your mouth and use your tongue to stimulate
  • Place both of your hands on the shaft of his penis and take his penis in your mouth and practice in rhythm with your hands.

Actually asking your partner what he likes or what he thinks he will like is a huge turn on and it actually allows you to give the best blowjob, it shows enthusiasm on your end and it means he will get the best oral sex ever.

Practice Makes Perfect

You may not be the best at sucking big dick when you first try it but practicing will make you better at it and speaking to your partner or the person you’re hooking up with will help you.

You can also practice on large objects if you have a dildo or even a large enough penis-shaped object to hand practice taking that into your mouth and do all of your best moves. Take yourself out of the moment and just imagine what would feel good for you and practice those moves.

This tip works best if you are already in a relationship, firstly he gets lots of blowjobs and you learn exactly what he likes.

The Gag Reflex Magic Trick

cartoon of hand

I have known this one for years and I am surprised that more women and men don’t know about it. It’s an incredibly sneaky and effective way to suppress your gag reflex, It does work better in unison with throat numbing spray but it is a trick that can really help you from gagging and allow you to go to town on that big dick.

Take your thumb and wrap it under your index finger, it should now be resting on your middle finger, squeeze down with your index finger and now test your gag reflex with your right hand and you should notice your gag reflex has gone or has been suppressed.

I don’t know how this works and if you do please let me know in the comments but it does work and really helps you to get as deep as possible on the dick.

Use Your Hands While Sucking

cartoon of hand and penis

Although I disagree with it if your partner has a bad habit of pushing your head down his shaft when he gets too carried away and activating your gag reflex, something you can do is use your hands. Firstly, it feels great to mix your hands and mouth when sucking dick but it also stops your mouth going any further than you want it too.

By using your hands it also means you can focus on the tip of the penis whilst your hands do all of the hard work, make sure you use lots of saliva and lube to make it as slippery as possible.

Use plenty of lube and saliva and work in rhythm, you may also find that with enough practice you can go further down the shaft that you could previously as you practice and work with your gag reflex.

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  1. I live in Granbury Texas and I would love to suck a mans dick slow and long and very deep ! May I suck your dick if you live in Granbury or on the lake Granbury ? I am looking for real to suck a dick so if you want to let me suck you and live in this area get back to me . Ok ?

  2. I would love to try sucking on a nice big juicy dick and deep throat him as well until I feel him explode in my mouth and throat guys

  3. i do have a gag reflex issue, i would love to be able to take my partners hard long cock down my throat. it would be great pleasure for both of us to feel the head of his cock cumming deep in my throat..i love sucking a big one take it as far as i feel comfortable right before he cums. then take the rest right as he cums it will make blow his load hard and long…damn now i want a cock any so cal?

  4. I’m anticipating sucking a 12″ dick soon and i started getting intimidated thinking what if I can’t so i began looking and found this THANK YOU FOR THE POINTERS. IT will be his first man on man experience and i want it to be awesome for him

  5. I’m a 65 year old man, and I’ve only found one man who’s cock was too big to properly suck. His wife was laughing at me trying to take him in my mouth, and said she couldn’t do it either.

  6. Thank you! I’m sucking my man dick for the first time tonight and I’m so excited! I’ll give you guys an update on how everything goes. Also that gag reflex hack is the truth!

  7. These tips are something i learned along the way by sucking dicks for like 5 years all ready.. but i kinda have an issue now that has made less confident.

    When I suck a dick now after a while my jaw start hurting.. am i doing something wrong??

    • My jaws get tired, too. Then I just lay on my back on the bed, with my head hanging off the end. Then a man can throat fuck me with no effort on my part.

  8. i love the message you delivered i cant wait for my man too get out of prison so i can try this omfg this is real life advice

  9. I’ve sucked a lot of big dicks mostly black I never heard of the throat numbing spray I’ll have to check it out. the only lube I get is when they come in my mouth and I’m swallowing it.

  10. I finally sucked my first cock. He was about 5 1/2 inches . Medium girth. I made him moan so I think I did good. However my co-worker and I have been teasing each other about hooking up. He’s 9 and thick. ???

  11. My boyfriend and I had a bdsm session where I fully dominate him. I have strapon screwed him before but I found out he never sucked cock. After we played I strapped on a 9in. 1 3/4 in. Wide dildo and made him kneel. In a dominant voice I ordered him to open wide and when he did I surprised him by shoving it balls deem down his throat cutting off his breath. I pulled out so he could breath surprising both of us he could swallow the whole thing. He asked for more so I fucked his mouth several more times pulling free offering him free cock sucking lessons. He was born to swallow, a real turn on. I quit screwing his ass and took up watching his suck me off.

  12. I sure miss sucking a nice cock! It’s been awhile. I’ve been craving it so bad lately. Sucking 2 at the same time right about now would be awesome.

  13. I must confirm the magical thumb trick! Although I thought it was on the left hand only so that’s good to know bc it’s a lifesaver

  14. I taught my boyfriend/slave how to suck cock with my strapon. He was a closet bisexual and loved to take it in the ass. I was more interested in pussy myself having a steady gf on the side. It was exciting to date a guy whom I could fuck rather than him fucking me. My bf was a serious pain addict and begged me to be his SM Mistress. I actually got quite good at giving whippings. We attended a wild party and after drinking and smoking some good weed my bf and I connected up with a married couple. I made out with the wife and my bf had fun with the guy. This lady went down on me licking my pussy while I watched my bf try to suck the guys huge cock. I was sorry and ashamed to find out my bf was a lousy cock sucker. I was turned on getting licked as this hot chick licked to to several orgasms. My bf did get the guy hard and I watched him get impaled looking quite worried about his size. It turned me on actually to watch him take dick. My lady lover wanted my tongue so I positioned her so I could keep watching the guys go at it. I have a long tongue so I snaked it into her vagina and gave her a tongue fucking driving her wild. My bf was taking a hard fuck crying out on every thrust forward. He proved to me he was definitely bi but needed how to suck cock. I got on top of my lady and 69’d with her and we went wild. The guy was ready to come pulling out of my bf ripped off the condom and shoved his cock back into my bf’s mouth and came. My bf tried to swallow but come dropped down his chin. Afterwards we exchanged info with the couple. I grabbed my bf by his stiff cock pushed him into a corner and gave him a real suck until he exploded swallowing each squirt one after another. Grabbing him by the balls and squeezing until he cried out I told him it embarrassed me that he was such a lousy cock sucker and I was going to give him some lessons.
    I had my eye on a cute single guy with a long limp cock looking lonely. I strolled over to him smiling grabbed his cock started stroking as I whispered what I desired of him. He told me he just broke up with his lover so I asked him if I could use his cock to give my bf a cock sucking lesson. In return he could fuck my bf’s ass. After hearing that his cock started getting hard.
    We found a large leather chair for my new stud and we knelt in front so we could pass his cock back and forth. I played follow the leader showing my bf how to suck and lick the glans then had him do the same. The stud actually critiqued his “suckability”. My bf was only doing fair but the stud was getting excited by my own sucking.
    I showed him how to lick the sensitive underside and the stud enjoyed my bf doing that. The stud squirmed on the chair when we each took turns sucking his balls. Pulling the balls away from the body helps stop premature ejaculation. We took turns swallowing his now ten inch cock. My bf choked when the head hit his uvula. When it was my turn after sucking for a few minutes with lots of saliva I swallowed his cock down to his balls. Holding my breath I slid my tongue back and forth on the underside making him really squirm.
    The stud gave me two thumbs up then grabbed my bf by the back of his head forcing him back to work fucking his face. The stud just gave me a nasty grin as my bf choked his way through learning how to swallow. The stud pulled his cock out of my bf’s mouth glistening with saliva while my bf embarrassingly got his breath. The stud said let’s see if he’ll choke when I’m fucking his ass.
    I greased my bf’s ass and the studs cock. My bf leaned over the back of the chair as I watched the stud stand behind find his anus with the head of his long cock. My bf cried it as the whole shaft slowly snaked inside. My bf was shaking barely able to stand having never felt such a large cock inside his ass. The stud kidding told me that my bf was a better fuck than a cock sucker because he was so tight. My bf was getting it bareback because I wanted the stud to come in his ass. The stud was an actual ace in the hole fucking my bf with full strokes for a good twenty minutes. I told my bf to hold on as I slipped my two middle fingers up the studs ass found his prostate and went at it. This triggered the stud who squirted come deep into my bf’s ass.
    I cleaned the studs cock with alcohol wipes and my bf’s ass. The stud thanked my bf for the great ride and said when he learned how to suck cock to invite him over!

    • Hi to all! My girlfriend and I have been talking about putting all my dick (5 inch larger) down her throat. She loves to suck my dick and she tries to get it all down but she can’t.. I know that 5 inch isn’t too much larger… I feel frustrated because I would not want to make her painful experience sucking my dick.

      My question is if that spry would solve our problem?

      Sorry about expressions, I’m not learned so much English yet…

      thanks to all!

  15. How big is a big cock to you? I’m white and a little over 7.5 with good thickness but it seems like every guy I know is hung like a horse.

  16. I am sucking my man off right now amd he is just loving it I am going to try and swallow his load but it is a lot when he does cum in me he just Loves the way I suck him now after reading how to suck hot hard cock thanks a lot

  17. Thanks for the tip on sucking big dick, I’m a 55 year old married man and I recently started sucking my freinds monster dick after thirty plus years of not doing it, never new about the trick with the thumb but tried it yesterday and he was so happy that I could do it now, once again thanks

  18. Never sucked a dick before but this make me want to suck one to completion I think it would be fun think I would love to swallow

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